Have you been hurt before? Well it sucks. Big time. But the worst thing is its not just the memory’s that suck its the
fear that its going to happen again. So we build walls close our selves of from the next person to come along have
trouble even trusting people cause we always assume the worst in people from then on. And some people have been
hurt like this multiple times even a few times in a row so they build those walls ten times higher and multiply their
defence and fear of this happening again by 100!
But let me let you in on a little secret. Nothing anyone says will make the hurt easy! But that’s life isn’t it ? Not
everything is easy some things are hard its what makes you who you are. That door opened to open up a new one,
a new opportunity this all happens for a reason!
But don’t let the hurt from that closing door make you slam the next one in your face! And I know your saying “its easy
to say it” or “its not that easy when it actually happens to you” I have had it happen to me i know how it feels. I know it
isn’t as easy as everyone thinks it is or how people think they know how you feel when they don’t. But don’t let this
disconnect you from your life, say YES! to that opened door feel that adrenalin rush for all the amazing times you’ll have
with someone new. Don’t let someone else’s mistake for not seeing what they had in front of them was as good as they could
get that what they had was amazing close your life of you deserve the joys of your life
I’m in no way saying you need someone to be happy because I believe you should be happy on your own or you wont be as
happy with with that someone else. If you have been hurt before and the relation ship comes to an end its good to have some
time to yourself but just make sure its for all the right reasons. not because you’re afraid that it is pain lying ahead because
pain is a possibility from letting someone new in but happiness is just as much if not more of a possibility too
Here’s my advice
GO FOR IT ! Don’t think what if and focus on whats right ahead of you! Dont you want to get those mad butterflies for no reason
again? the most hurtful what if is when you will look back and say “what if I gave it a chance”.
But if all this fails grab your friend some popcorn ice cream and chocolate stick on those comfy pyjamas of yours and watch all
the best movies and just vent everything out. Because that can be some of the best memories you have too !